Make a Jewish wedding’s broken glass moment last a lifetime

Ronit Kagan married Jack Abramowitz
Ronit Kagan married Jack Abramowitz Photographer: Guy Lerner

“Im eshkachech Yerushalayim, tishkach yemini.” If I forget thee, O Jerusalem, let my right hand forget her cunning.

Boom. Crush. Crackle. The final step of a Jewish wedding’s chuppah ceremony is the moment that the groom steps on the glass to shouts of “Mazal Tov! ” There are countless interpretations for the tradition of breaking a glass. Some see it as a reminder of the destruction of the First Temple of Jerusalem. Others say it is meant to remind us that marriage is as fragile as glass. It also has been interpreted to demonstrate how life is so fragile that the couple should enjoy every day as if it were their last together. “Can you imagine — you can take a perfectly formed object and smash it…. We are so perfectly formed as we stand under the chuppah. It is true that life is fragile and sometimes fragmented, but Hashem responds to a broken heart,” says Chana Perelman, director of Whether progressive or traditional, religious or secular, Jewish weddings almost always include the breaking of a glass. At some weddings, and certainly historically, people used light bulbs or wine goblets wrapped in cloth napkins. Today, however, there are many artists designing vibrant, trendy, and often hand- blown Jewish wedding breaking glasses, and ultimately imaginative keepsakes in which to keep their shards. What can you do with those shards? Here are seven ideas: Box it up If you choose a dynamic breaking glass in a vibrant color, simply boxing the shards in a Lucite or glass box can be a real attraction. The box can sit on a bookshelf or be displayed on a countertop. The box can be purchased at a craft or jewelry store. Bag it Shari Klein created a keepsake to help engage her to-be step-children in the wedding ceremony. Today, it beautifies her new home. It was a do-it-yourself project. She purchased an off-white muslin bag with a drawstring and fabric crayons. The children — two boys, ages 6 and 8 — were asked to draw what they felt depicted the special day on which their dad would marry his new wife. Use it for a mitzvah Artist Faye Miller tells that among her most popular keepsakes are mezuzahs and Kiddush cups. Make a wedding memory Broken glass wedding albums, photo frames, and ketubah (marriage contract) frames are also popular. Design a piece of jewelry The bride can take a piece of glass and commission a keepsake piece of jewelry. A search on reveals a lamp- work necklace from the broken glass of a Jewish wedding, created by Sari Glassman, who explains on the product page that she melted the pieces from the broken glass in the flame and added to them 22k gold leaf. Create pottery Perelman recommends embedding wedding glass shards in a piece of pottery. One can visit a paint-and-glaze store and ask to use the glass as part of a mosaic pottery project, or commission an artist to create their ideal piece. Search for another craft idea — or come up with your own! Pinterest is an excellent platform for finding creative ideas for what to do with your broken wedding glass shards. Put “broken glass art” in the search bar and you’ll find everything from mirrors, to mosaics, to glass bottle collectibles, to garden stepping stones. Faye Miller says it’s a joy to work on breaking glass keepsakes. “I think the glass shards themselves are beautiful, and the fact that they harken back to the earliest days of the Jewish people is very meaningful,” says Miller. “How wonderful to have a piece in your home that evokes memories of our people as well as the special moment when you became husband and wife. I love my job and consider it an honor when brides and grooms select my art for their wedding glass.”


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